Bitching? Is something people do when they have nothing else better to talk about!! So what the fcuk are you supposed to do with a person who does'nt have a life past there place of work and all they can do is shit stir and bitch I go to work to work, if i have made a few friends along the way its an added bonus. i used to enjoy going to work but now its just a pain, listening to the same broken record going over and over!! WTF can i do, they are constantly tryin to get 1up on me. you should see there faces when they think they have there like over the moon as its an achievement but the fact of the matter is ive let it go!!! I really don't know how i can win this battle if i speak my mind i will basically destroy certain peoples lives ( ironic as the fact they don't have lives is the cause of the problem ) and i don't want to go down to there level!! what is an arguement? i always understood an argument to be to people disagreeing on a certain matter. Normally each person has there say, backs it up etc....you get my point ( i hope ) Heres an example MT = Microwave Technician, apprantly chefs!! Nat" these wedges need cheese on them" MT " no they don't as Dots told me they don't" Nat" well the custumer has just asked for cheese" MT "No they don't" *getting annouyed with me* Nat " Yes they do ive just been over there, look at the check" MT "Fuck off" Nat" EH ":spangled: * so minding my own buissness i check the chitty. 1 spicy potatoe wedges, which are wedges, salsa source and melted cheese!!* MT" am i right?" Nat" No your not fucking right put fucking cheese on these wedges, its what the cuistumer wants, who cares what dot sayes!!" So then later in the night the topic of coversation was here blasting my cos i was in the wrong. FFS:fuming: So i let it go. please bear in mind that was a few months ago and here we are several arguments later. I can't handle it any more:angry: Tonight i was called a "daft cunt" be one of the MTs, which took it over the line.... There is loads more on this topic i could go on for ever! But how do you avoid telling someone there whole life is a loads of bollocks. PS im referring to 2 people here both MT's but as one of them is only 19 i don't wanna be that cruel!! Help, what can i do? PS ive did a pretty good job of ignoring this shite for around a year!!
Unfortunately respect comes with age..... As ive found when i was younger, it doesnt matter what you do, or how hard you try - People will always treat you like you are ten levels below them if your only a few years younger (assuming of course these people giving you shit are older types) Best you can do is grin and bear it.
awww hun, hope its not getting ya down too much! age is such ab issue at work, and always will be...grin nd bear it for now, note down what happens, nd talk to sum 1 more senoir about it?? xx
